Growing With The Lords People!

Read: 1 Peter 4:8-10

I have had many opportunities recently to reflect back on my days of growing up in the church.  I grew up in a medium sized (80-90 people) Mennonite church in Carlsbad, New Mexico.  When the church doors were open you could pretty much be sure that our family was going to be walking through them.  As a child I didn’t get the impression that it was seen as a legalistic obligation to go to church; but as an opportunity to worship the Lord and grow with God’s people together.  This is an opportunity that many people in our world could cherish and benefit from as well if they would give it a try.  In a world that becomes busier by the week it takes a conscious effort and desire to make the church family a part of our lives.

Many people have heard the African Proverb that says, “It takes a village to raise a child.”  Susan Allison-Jones reminded me of that concept of the village in an article I read and I realized how well it relates to the church. She shared her own experiences of how important the church family was in forming her children and their outlook on life.  She shared stories in which the church friends would support them, care for them, encourage them, and help them as a family.  She writes, “The village gives us perspective, relief, and peace of heart and mind.  The village gives our children an intergenerational group of people not found in many other settings in our busy, complex world.”

Relationships can sometimes be challenging and difficult in any setting, but by placing ourselves around God’s people we allow our families to bless others and be blessed by others in so many ways.  I realize now how valuable that was in my growing up years and how valuable that was for my own children as they grew up in the church.  I am very thankful that my parents made our church family a part of the village that helped me along the way. I know that our church today did the same for our children as they grew up.

Make It Personal:  May the Lord continue to help all of us grow together as his people and for his purposes!  I agree with Susan when she ends her article by saying, “It does take a village to raise a child.  And we are thankful for those who have been and are a part of our village.”  “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.  Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”  1 Peter 4:8-10

Have a great week,  Glen Rhodes



Take Care Of It

Read: James 1:19-27

I always enjoy the basketball season!  Especially when the Illini have a chance to play in the NCAA tournament like this past season.  There is also nothing quite like going to watch an intense high school basketball game or a game of grade school players trying to learn the pick and roll.  As I have attended many basketball games in my life I have noticed myself saying one phrase more than any other.  As the teams would come up the floor with the ball I would often say, “Take care of the ball!”

Obviously this comment would come from the realization that each possession was very important.  In any sport there is a direct connection between turnovers and the final outcome of the game.  The more I thought about that statement though, the more I realized that it connects with our daily lives as well.  God has given each of us the gift of life and it is an act of good stewardship on our part to take care of it.

When it comes to taking care of ourselves the first thing most people think of is our health.  It is important to eat healthy foods, exercise, and pay attention to the doctor’s orders.  But there is also a spiritual element to this that is just as important or probably the most important.

In James 1:22-25 the Bible says, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Those who listen to the word but do not do what it says are like people who look at their faces in a mirror and, after looking at themselves, go away and immediately forget what they look like. But those who look intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continue in it, not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it, they will be blessed in what they do.”

With those words, James, the brother of Jesus is encouraging us to follow after, and not ignore God’s plan for our lives.  He is instructing us to take care of what God has blessed us with and to use our lives to bring glory and praise to our creator.  Just like many basketball teams, we tend to get careless at times.  We do things that we know are against God’s will and we don’t pay close enough attention to how our decisions are affecting our lives as well as those closest to us. We would do well to remember each day that our spiritual life, our relationships, our finances, our possessions, and every part of our being are worth taking care of. 

Make It Personal: God realizes that we are not perfect, and yet he desires for us to take care of this precious gift of life that he has given to us.  God has created us in His image and has given us families, responsibilities, and a purpose in life.  Maybe the next time we find ourselves forgetting about the face in the mirror or the life that we have been called to, we should whisper those words to ourselves, “Take care of it!”

Have a great week,  Glen Rhodes           



Important Words!

Read: Philippians 1:3-11

Encouragement and humility are two of the greatest virtues in life.  Not only do they lift other people up, but they lift our spirits as well.  In the book of Philippians in the Bible Paul shares these virtues and others in various ways.  Take the time this week to read the whole book of Philippians to appreciate the full scope of joy, encouragement, and thanksgiving that Paul writes about.

As I considered those virtues of encouragement and humility, I remembered an email I recently received that said: The six most important words are, “I admit that I was wrong!”  The five most important words are, “You did a great job.”  The four most important words are, “What do you think?”  The three most important words are, “May I help?” The two most important words are, “Thank You!”  The most important word is, “We.” And the least important word is, “I”.

In verse 6 of Phillipians chapter 1 Paul says, “Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”  So often we get caught up in the needs that we have as individuals and forget about the needs of those whom God places in our path each day.  Paul encourages us in that verse to remember that we are called to bring about good things in life and speak positive words of encouragement to each other.  Those words flow out of our relationship with Jesus Christ and they can also be a wonderful testimony of his love and concern for others.

Paul says, “The fruit of righteousness” comes through Jesus Christ.  Let’s remember those important words and put the focus on others instead of ourselves.  As we read the New Testament we realize that this is how Jesus lived.  His humility and his ministry of encouragement to others is a great example for us to follow.

Make It Personal:  Take your most difficult relationship right now and use the encouragement of Philippians to approach it in a different way.  By blessing others in Christ we can often turn the bad into good.

 Be blessed this week,  Glen Rhodes       



Find The Good & Applaud

Read: 1 Thessalonians 5:12-24

A man was writing at a post office desk and was approached by an older fellow with a post card in his hand.  The older man said, “Sir, could you please address this post card for me?”  The man gladly did so, agreeing also to write a short message and sign the card for the man.  Finally the younger man asked, “Now, is there anything else I can do for you?”  The older fellow thought about it for a moment and said, “Yes, at the end could you just put, ‘P.S. Please excuse the sloppy handwriting.'”

How often is it that we complain against those who do the most for us?  One of Zig Zigler’s famous quotes is, “Find the good and applaud.”  We would do good to remember that as we converse with family, friends, and co-workers throughout the week.  Too often we catch ourselves looking for the negative instead of affirming the positive.  In I Thessalonians 5:12-24 Paul is writing to the church in Thessalonica and is ending his letter by encouraging them to encourage each other.  He says things like, “Live at peace with each other, don’t pay back wrong for wrong, be kind to each other, give thanks in all circumstances.”  In other words, don’t complain, but find something good to celebrate and give thanks for.  Find words of encouragement to speak into someone’s life.

In the Handbook of Short Story Writing author Muriel Anderson says that four of the most important words in her life are “Of course you can.”  She said, “I was fortunate to have a father who was good at saying of course you can at just the right moments.”  She goes on tell about one time when she was in high school and her family had moved to a city from a small town.  She had loved that small town and wrote an article about it and her time growing up there.  She wanted more than anything to have her article published in the small-town weekly paper.  She didn’t expect to be successful, though, because the paper was a weekly with a tight budget and published very little free-lance material.  “I don’t think I can get it published,” she said to her father.  Her dad responded with his usual encouragement and said, “Of course you can!”  She did and it launched her career as a very successful writer.  Our words can often make a huge difference!

Make It Personal: In a world that is often negative we would do well to be positive and encouraging.  In 1 Thessalonians 5 Paul says, “Be joyful always, pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  Sounds like a tall order, but it is an order that can be filled when we are living in Christ and relying on his strength and encouragement to shine through us.  Blessings to you as you find the good and applaud! 

Have a great week,  Glen Rhodes